Shopping on an empty stomach? Poor choices
Finding love feeling unloved? Poor choices
They say the worst time to go into a supermarket is when your feeling hungry. You make impulsive choices about what you buy and spend money you don't have.
It's been my experience that it's true of love. If you are looking for love and you don't feel love then you will make poor choices. It takes two whole people to make a marriage. If you feel unworthy unloved unlovable you might end up picking someone who will exploit that. When you are loved you make clearer choices. Because your value does not come from outside but within you.